The landscape of legal rights and responsibilities for same-sex couples has evolved significantly in recent years. The recognition of same-sex marriage in the US and registered domestic partnerships in CA has resulted in legal frameworks that ensure equality and...
Year: 2023
How Do I Tell My Abusive Spouse I Want a Divorce?
Telling your spouse that you want a divorce is never easy, but it can be especially difficult if your spouse is abusive. If you are in an abusive relationship, it is important to take steps to protect yourself and your children before you have this conversation. In...
Can You Live Happily Ever After Following Divorce
Divorce is a life-changing event that can leave individuals feeling lost and uncertain about their future. However, it is important to remember that divorce does not have to be the end of your happiness or dreams. In fact, for many people, divorce marks the beginning...
Best Way to Do A Pre-Nuptial Agreement? Collaboratively
Some people feel there is a stigma around premarital agreements, but a premarital agreement can be a vital part of a marriage. For couples who do not have such an agreement, the State of California provides a premarital agreement, which is the law of community...
Divorce Fear – Fear about the Future
Going through a divorce is a stressful process. The uncertainty about your future can be an all-encompassing concern. In the Collaborative Divorce process, we have tools that can help sort out your concerns and work to turn that fear into a positive view of what your...
Divorce Fear: The Children Will Lose Contact with Your Extended Family
When your extended family and the extended family of your spouse learn of your divorce, they frequently are concerned about the impact it will have on their relationship with your children. Grandparents wonder if they have any rights and can be involved someway in the...
Fears – Will Divorce Make Conflict Worse
Rarely (never) does a person wake up one morning and decide they want a divorce. Often, at least one spouse has been contemplating divorce for weeks, months, or even years. The discord or conflict escalates over time and one or both spouses finally decide the time has...
6 signs that divorce might be your best option
Many people will go to extremes to avoid divorce. They view divorce as a sign of personal failure and would prefer to preserve their marriage if at all possible. It is certainly admirable to do your best to prioritize keeping your marriage vows to your spouse....
What Questions Do Children Ask About Divorce?
When you have friends or family members who are getting divorced, or your children have friends from school whose parents are getting divorced, it is natural for your children to have questions. It may be difficult for you to provide answers. If they ask a question...
How to Tell Your Children You Are Divorcing
One of the most difficult things about a divorce is telling your children that you and your spouse are separating, and they will now have two homes. A mental health professional can help you tell your children that you are divorcing. Meanwhile, we offer some...