Summer vacation is an exciting time for kids to try new things and spend time with family. For parents who share custody, it can also bring some challenges. With good planning and clear communication, co-parents can make summer fun and smooth for their kids. Here’s what parents can do to enjoy summer while keeping their parental rights safe.
Prioritize communication and proactive planning
The key to a successful summer is early planning and open communication. Discuss summer plans as soon as possible so both parents can agree on vacation dates, special activities, and other commitments. You may want to use a shared calendar to keep track of everything.
This is especially important if you intend to travel with your children. Your custody agreement might require you to get the other parent’s written permission before travel. Talk about transportation and safety early. Share trip plans and contact info to stay connected during travels. You may need to change your schedule for time away from home.
Stay flexible
Weather, illnesses, cancellations and other surprises can derail your summer plans. Have backup plans for emergencies or unexpected events. This way, both parents can handle changes quickly.
Prepare for summer activities
Summer camps, classes or sports can be expensive, sometimes costing hundreds of dollars per week. Decide how you and your co-parent will split these costs. Also, plan how to manage transportation, schedules and attending events.
Get legal support if needed
Review your custody agreement and consult with your mediator or attorney if you are uncertain about the terms. Understanding your legal obligations can prevent misunderstandings.
If you disagree or you need to update your agreement to reflect your child’s changing needs as they grow, consider mediation as a tool to help you make changes. Mediation provides a neutral ground for both parents to discuss their concerns and find mutually agreeable solutions.
Enjoy your time with your family
Lastly, focus on creating happy memories. Summer is a time for fun and relaxing, so enjoy the moments you have with your kids. Whether you take a big vacation or focus on simple backyard fun, what counts is the quality time together.
You can prepare for a fun summer vacation with your family
By planning ahead and keeping communication open, co-parents can handle the challenges of shared custody in the summer. The goal is to ensure a happy, stress-free summer for both parents and kids.